Sex: Male
Born: Monday, March 1st, 1965 (in the wee hours of the morning)
Height: 5' 8"
Weight: 165-220
Eyes: Blue
Hair: 18 inches long, slight natural wave; about as dark as it can be &
still be called blond. I've never shaved once ever.
Marine Engineer / Electrician
On December 18, 2008 I started working for the Fishing Company of Alaska, Inc. as chief engineer on board
their H&G longliner, the Alaska Pioneer. I've also worked on a couple of their other boats since then,
and just now (May 2010), I'm working onboard the Pioneer again. When FCA's boats are next to shore,
they're usually tied to a dock near (and owned by) OSI
in Captain's Bay near Dutch Harbor doing various repair, maintenance and improvement projects.
For other info please see my resume.
Education: BA in Physics from The Johns Hopkins University, 1986 & a year of
grad school at U of TX @ Austin.
I have in many ways adapted to being a sort of hermit, and
I seldom feel comfortable or enjoy doing social things as a non-anonymous member of a large (>7) group of people
unless I'm already pretty individually familiar and comfortable with most of the group's members.
I am single.
I have no children.
I am not monogamous and hate the unhappiness that I see the
cultural repercussions of monogamy putting in people's lives. I also don't like the
conceptual division monogamy puts between friends & partners. Had I gotten
married I would have preferred it to ultimately be in a 5-8
(primary) adult family with large amounts of personal space for all concerned.
I like doing things with people that are enjoyable for all concerned and
make an effort for the things I am doing with people to be that way.
I'm something of a nudist at home.
I am heterosexual. I try not to form or act on preconceived notions about
those who aren't.
I am a pantheist and want to continue to be one.
The religious writing I feel most in agreement with is the Lao Tzu (Tao te Ching),
but I don't consider it to be an exclusive or complete source of religious truth.
I think its ok for friends to be different from each other and to have different
opinions on lots of things. I don't think the differences between people should
necessarily impede enjoying what shared happinesses do exist.
There's a few of the less mainstream aspects of myself I'd like to change and many I like
very much just as they are. The same applies to the more mainstream aspects of myself,
also. I think an important aspect of interacting with others is who I become by
doing so.
I'm often somewhat fatalistic about things I can't control.
I have what transactional analysts call an internal locus of control.
Regarding food, when I'm at home I try to be a vegetarian + eating eggs (in recipes, not
for breakfast) and milk products (cheese & sour cream on sandwitches, butter in recipes,
ice cream when the diet allows). An exception to this is ahi tuna which I've been eating
at home a lot recently. When I eat out in restuarants I add seafood (especially sashimi
and shellfish) to this list. When I'm eating on a boat, however, I eat whatever's available
that tastes the least bad. This has often included red meat, chicken, veal, sausage, etc.
If there's a selection & everything's good (hah!) I try to revert to restuarant preferences.
Recently, I've acquired a lot of burgers via drive-through and cream cheese w/ turkey or ham
bagels via convenience store and eaten them in my car. It's a habit that recurs a lot when
I'm involved with drive-to-work employment. Recently (Dec 2005) I made up my own personal
food pyramid which reflects that when I try to be a
vegetarian, it's not for food pyramid type reasons.
Father: John Richard Banister, born
in 1932 & raised in Portland, Oregon, an only child.
Mother: Barbra Joyce Long Banister,
born in 1933 & raised in Tulsa, Oklahoma and Pierrepont, New York, an older child in a
large farming family
My parents married in August of 1964 and are still married and living in
Rowlesburg, West Virginia. Dad has worked for The United States Air Force, Tektronics, The
Communications Sattelite Corporation, and AT&T. The last two jobs were at the world's busiest
communications satellite earth station in Etam, WV. Dad is now retired. Mom worked
for Western Electric before she married, has trained as an Emergency Medical
Techician, was owner-manager-cook of a restuarant & a bar, retired from that, and is currently
(Dec 2007) in the middle of her third two year term as mayor of Rowlesburg.
Brother: David Scott Banister, born in 1966
& raised in Eastern Washington and rural West Virginia (2nd grade on). David's living near
Morgantown WV. He married Nancy Nutt in 1995 and has two children, Nick (born 1982) and
Benjamin (born 1995). Dave and Nancy finished getting divorced in early 2007. Nick
married Courtney Rouster. At 9:08PM on June 4th 2008,
Courtney gave birth to their son, Jack.
Nick and Courtney have since divorced. David studied zoology at the
State University of New York at Oswego and later art at West Virginia University. He's done a lot of
work in crane trucks, in charge of teams that pick up the removed railroad ties when the union changes them.
Sister: Raimona Nellie Banister Rowe,
born in 1970 and raised in West Virginia. Raimona is living near Cortland, New York. She married
Steve Alan Rowe, a programmer working for Syracuse University
and specializing in translation software, in 1996 and has two children, Tyler Rain Dingler
(born 1991) and Charlotte Gem Rowe (born 3.88 kg, 53.975 cm on Monday, January 11, 2001 at 8:49 AM
after about 4 hours of labor). Raimona studied general subjects at Simons's Rock of Bard
College and later teaching at the State University of New York at Cortland. She worked
as quality control standards author in a Cortland company that fills little sample containers.
Currently, she's working as a rehab aid at the JM Murray Center and works preparing income tax
returns (She's an Enrolled Agent.) in the spring. In the Spring of 2006, I started working on a
project helping Raimona's family with building a house. My participation
in that project is now at an end.
Other Sister: Rebecca Nora Banister, born in 1972 and raised in Seoul, Korea and
Rowlesburg, West Virginia. Rebecca has yet to marry or have children.
She has graduated from Job Core's secretarial division and is currently living in Rowlesburg
and occasionally volunteering as a teacher's aid in the school there.
Computers
Science Fiction / Fantasy Stories & Art
Mathematics
Physics
Mathematical Logic
Food
Music: Traditional, Orchestral, Electronic, alternative rock
Movies with good ideas, plots, comedy, or erotica
Climbing mountains (I don't have equipment for this)
Hiking, playing in unchlorinated water (I am not a good swimmer)
Most outdoors stuff not involving internal combustion engines
Taking photos & developing them
Looking at beautiful photos
listening to water
Reptiles
window shopping in catalogs and online
Tropical fish
Women mathematicians
Eating
artistic expression
Kitchen Utensils & machines
thinking
Technology put to good use
Arguing
Evergreens
the medeterranean diet pyramid
Moss
Sex
Doing things well
Seeing things done well
candles (especially big weird ones)
Sleeping
Some Haiku & other poetry
Making music (which isn't to say I'm proficient at it)
Thunderstorms
Fireflies
Parentheses
gold bullion (donations gladly accepted)
Being kind to strangers
Marine Gastropods and Cephelopods
The way Pipe Tobacco smells when it isn't burning
Pumpkins
Concerti Grossi, Marimba music, and other polyphonic music
The way coffee beans smell
Subcategories (I have more hand made folders per file on my hard drive than many, many people.)
Signs & public notices containing bad grammar or spelling or use "less" instead of "fewer" to refer to things that come by eaches
Some "Foods"
The way tomatoe sauce stains plastic containers
Strong emotional confrontation (When I'm really angry with a person &
am around the person I'm angry with, I (involuntarily, almost) go to sleep.)
Expressions of absolute truth w/o thoughtful proof
Thoughtlessness that causes unhappiness
Stridentness
Breathing cigarette smoke (or any other smoke for that matter)
Loud parties full of strangers (but only when I'm in them)
Heat combined with humidity at night
Litter
Being requested/expected to eat the remainder of someone else's meal
Being encouraged to eat snacks & treats when I'm trying to diet
Drinking coffee or espresso (which isn't to say that I don't do it)
Regularly hearing expressions of love during or immediatly after sex that I seldom hear at any other time
Keeping mental lists of secrets and whose they are. When people tell me stuff that they want to keep secret,
I often just forget what they told me. That way I won't betray their confidence, but don't have to try to
remember who isn't supposed to know.
Spending my personal time around people I have to clean up after in order to live in an environment that is
(for me) sufficiently clean, and especially being around people who feel like they've scored some sort of
dominance points because I'm willing to clean up in order to have cleanliness.
"Reality" shows on broadcast network television, especially anything where people vote one another off or out.
(Although, I do think that negative votes for national elections would be a good idea.)
Owning land and building a home on (in) it
Learning how to take better photos
Maybe a telecommuting job
Maybe learning to fly airplanes
Death: I'm not a fan of funerals, so after I die and all possibly useful organs are donated (maybe
not too many as, having had malignant melanoma, I'm not allowed to donate blood) I want what's left of
my body to be composted and used to raise vegetables. Those with sufficient desire to attend a funeral
can instead come to a banquet later on, where those attending will be required to "eat their vegetables." I'm happy to say that someone else likes the corpse composting concept. The Swedish company Promessa is doing this.
Here's a really short story I wrote for my own amusement one day while
attending college.
Here's a link back.